From prosociality to reciprocity: A developmental shift in children’s friendship concept.

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Authors: Rongzhi Liu, Jan M. Engelmann, Fei Xu
Cited by: 2

Abstract

= 236), we examined how children weighed the importance of reciprocity and prosociality in friendship formation. Children were asked to predict which of two pairs-one in which both individuals provided prosocial behaviors (the reciprocal pair) and one in which only one individual provided prosocial behaviors (the nonreciprocal pair)-would become better friends. We found that younger children consistently favored the nonreciprocal pair, but with age, children became more likely to choose the reciprocal pair. By age 7, children reliably preferred the reciprocal pair, suggesting that they recognize the importance of reciprocity above and beyond prosociality in friendship formation. These findings shed new light on the theoretical debate on the role of reciprocity in friendship, and suggest that reciprocity may be an important component of children's mature concept of friendship. (PsycInfo Database Record (c) 2026 APA, all rights reserved).

Fields of Study & Subjects

Child and Animal Learning Development Attachment and Relationship Dynamics Bullying Victimization and Aggression

Publication details

Journal / source
Developmental Psychology
Publisher
American Psychological Association (APA)
Publication date
29 January 2026
Language
EN