Conversations about boring topics are more interesting than we think.
Abstract
= 1,800) reveal that participants consistently underestimated how enjoyable and interesting conversations about boring topics were. Expectations were relatively more calibrated for conversations about interesting topics. This pattern held across virtual and in-person settings, conversations with friends and strangers, and self-generated and experimenter-assigned topics. This occurs partly due to the relative ease of assessing the static elements of conversations and the difficulty of assessing their dynamic elements. The topic is a static element that is easy to assess prior to a conversation, and so people overweight it in their forecasts. The level of engagement conversations command-the need to respond, listen, and pay attention to another person-makes them enjoyable, but is harder to assess because it dynamically emerges only once a conversation begins. Expectations about enjoyment guide decisions to enter conversations, suggesting that miscalibration between predicted and actual enjoyment can lead people to avoid conversations they would, in fact, enjoy. (PsycInfo Database Record (c) 2026 APA, all rights reserved).
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Publication details
- Journal / source
- Journal of Personality and Social Psychology
- Publisher
- American Psychological Association (APA)
- Volume
- 130
- Issue
- 6
- Pages
- 1167–1189
- Publication date
- 13 April 2026
- Language
- EN