How parenthood shapes the experiences of disclosure for different generations of sexual minority parents

The study analyses LGB parents’ experiences of sexual identity disclosure and its implication for identity and family relations. Prior research has shown that becoming a parent could lead LGB adults to bond with families of origin after coming out. However, the ways in which generational cohort, gender, and sexual identity may affect experiences of disclosure have rarely been studied. Interviews of 35 US LGB parents were analysed using thematic analysis and descriptive statistics. The sample included participants from six racial and ethnic groups from two age cohorts: 21 participants aged 35–42 and 14 aged 52–59. Respondents described how parenthood and sexual identities intersect and influence each other. Being a parent encouraged disclosure to relatives and helped foster recognition and support within families of origin. Furthermore, being part of a sexual minority group shaped the education of their children. In the context of social and legal changes, respondents from the older cohort reported more challenges related to parenthood and parenting. LGB parents may face challenges in disclosing to their children. Medical and psychological services could be designed to support LGB parents in disclosing their identities. Doctors and teachers could receive education concerning LGB families in order to reduce stress related to coming out.