Controlling What You Share: Assessing Language Model Adherence to Privacy Preferences

Large language models (LLMs) are primarily accessed via commercial APIs, but this often requires users to expose their data to service providers.In this paper, we explore how users can stay in control of their data by using privacy profiles: simple natural language instructions that say what should and should not be revealed.We build a framework where a local model uses these instructions to rewrite queries, only hiding details deemed sensitive by the user, before sending them to an external model, thus balancing privacy with performance.To support this research, we introduce PEEP, a multilingual dataset of real user queries annotated to mark private content and paired with synthetic privacy profiles, alongside PROFIT, a training procedure that enables effective and efficient use of the pipeline.Experiments with lightweight local LLMs show that, after training, they not only achieve markedly better privacy preservation but also match or exceed the performance of much larger few-shot models.