The Relationship Between the Characteristics of the «Perezhivanie» («Experiencing») and Family Communications of Students

Currently, there is a crisis of family relations; the transformation of family institutions into a new quality is underway. Our research considers the «perezhivanie» («experiencing») communicative aspect of family relations, where we rely on the research of Fakhrutdinova (2011) on the nature of the «perezhivanie» («experiencing») as a subjective plane of family relations. She discovered the psychological mechanism of development of consciousness and personality through experiencing impressions. In this study, the experienced impression is the family relations of the respondents. The purpose of the study: to study the characteristics of family communications and the physical, emotional and cognitive characteristics of the «perezhivanie» («experiencing»). Research methods: questionnaire «Family emotional communications» by Kholmogorova et al. (2016), questionnaire «Questionnaire of the «perezhivanie» («experiencing») the FEC» by Fakhrutdinova (2008). The study involved 90 students in marital relationships aged 22 to 56 years, who are in marital relationships. Research has demonstrated the disrupted, traumatic nature of marital relationships. Marital perfectionism, as a characteristic of family communication, is statistically significantly higher in women, which may be the cause of high levels of stress in marital relationships. Men demonstrated a higher level of reflective processes in their marital «perezhivanie» («experiencing») compared to women. The absence of correlational relationships between indicators of family communication and experiences of marital relations was revealed, which confirms the presence of global disturbances in the marital relations of respondents. The practical significance of the study lies in the application of the findings in marital counseling.